I believe that every couple who wishes to get married needs to undergo Pre-Marriage Counselling Below are the top seven reasons why you should undergo Pre-Martial Counseling prior to getting married.
High Expectations:
Both partners have a mismatched expectation of what marriage is, or how much they need to accommodate the other. So, a psychologist will help you spell it out
No marriage is immune:
Marriage is about adjustment, flexibility and acceptance, hence you need to set the ground rules prior to the event
Patience:
How to be patient with your spouse, as well as with their family and friends
New Environment:
Getting married involves moving into a new home, and a different environment, hence what to expect, and how to address the āhomesicknessā
New Culture, Traditions, Lifestyles:
What is expected from the spouses, is the marital home environment too strict as well as what are the dress code and etiquette of behavior
Age matters:
The older you are the more inflexible you are; not to say that the young are not inflexible, but the older one gets the more set in his or her way of doing things. Hence, The need to explore accommodating and flexibility
Understanding of Intimacy & Finance:Ā
Sex is a subset of intimacy, one needs to understand sex, intimacy and finance. Experience has shown that most unhappy and unsuccessful marriages are due to the lack of understanding of Intimacy and Finance.
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About Dr. Prerna Kohli
She is a 100 women Achievers Award Winner (2016) from the Honorable President of India, Shri Pranab Mukherjee
Dr. Prerna Kohli is a Clinical Psychologist, a Public Speaker, a Workshop Facilitator and also a Holistic Practitioner. She offers Heart-based workshops and lectures that focus on Life Balance, Self-awareness and Inner Peace. Thus, Dedicated to sharing her knowledge and compassion with others, Prerna blends intuitive wisdom with solid understanding, creating a powerful holistic approach, specializing in the areas of Emotional change.
Dr. Prerna Kohli is a leading Psychologist in India and providesĀ Pre-Marital, Marital and Post Marital Counselling
