What is Marriage? Marriage is nothing but the union of two individuals who have decided to share their lives with each other, support in good/bad situations until the rest of their lives.
What is a Successful marriage then?
A successful marriage is like falling in love with the same person many times. No wedlock is perfect; one has to make it perfect. A successful marriage can be defined as where the relationship is open, transparent, balanced, honest, respectful, commitment, accepting flaws and unconditional LOVE!
It is always a conscious effort of being determinant of overcoming any obstacles and supporting, motivating one another in their thick and thin.
So a successful marriage is based on these Four Main pillars not necessarily being in the same order. Any issue with even one of the pillar can break your wedlock.
Communication:
Communication is like oxygen to a Life, without it, it dies. Healthy communication can help a marriage to bloom further and save a match from divorce as well. A direct, honest and an open relationship would be a key to any successful wedlock.
Money:
They say Love is more important than money, but have you tried paying your bills with a Hug??!! Money is a very crucial aspect in a successful wedlock as the couple share, plan, spend and manage their funds together. A couple can be happy even if they co-jointly earn 50 thousand a month and be unhappy even if they earn 2 lacs a month.
Sex and Intimacy:
A successful married couple must be connected well on the emotional and physical level both. There has to be intimacy along with sex for a happy union.
Family:
Choosing your partner over family or family over a partner is difficult but the person has to balance between both to lead a successful match.
These four principles, when followed by both the partners, will help the couple to flourish their relationship and make it everlasting.
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