Dr Prerna Kohli

The impact of stress on relationships and how to manage it

[vc_row][vc_column][vc_column_text]Are you facing difficulty in your relationship? Do you feel disappointed with your partner and wish to quit? If so, you might just be experiencing stress in your relationship.

Stress in relationships can be seen when certain concerns arise between partners due to differences of opinion. Similarly, stress can be caused due to individual issues related to one’s work, past relationships, childhood experiences, etc. Thus, stress on an individual level can also lead to affect the relationship. These concerns and issues are not easy to anticipate. At times, it becomes difficult to resolve the stress as the people involved are not aware of how it originated. Moreover, your response to your partner’s stressful times can also determine how the relationship is impacted. To overcome the challenges that come along due to stress in your life it is essential to acknowledge the reason behind the stress and work towards effective management.

Stress is a common factor in relationships and can have a detrimental effect on both partners. It can lead to communication problems, misinterpretations, intense conflicts, lack of intimacy and empathy, unhealthy coping mechanisms, difficulty managing finances, and fatigue. When one or both partners are overwhelmed with stress, it can be hard to feel close to each other, and also exhausting to enjoy doing activities together. Stress leads to changes in behavior, such as being less aware of own actions, words, and tone of voice, which can negatively affect relationships. Furthermore, individuals may bottle up their stress, making it difficult for their partners to recognize what they are going through and how to provide support. It is crucial to identify the signs of stress in relationships and to address it healthily. Research implies that relationships are worse off when people are under stress, so it is important to identify methods to help manage it.

  1. Focus on the things you like in your partner and appreciate them instead of worrying about the negatives.
  2. Avoid overthinking and over analyzing as it takes the joy and peace out of today.
  3. Replaying and reliving the past hurt and building unrealistic expectations can bring about a lot of unhealthy behavior in the relationship. Practicing mindfulness and shifting the attention to what you are feeling, seeing, smelling, hearing, tasting, and writing it.
  4. Healthy relationships involve accepting your partner as they are and not wanting to change them. It is important to set healthy boundaries and not ponder on things that are not under your control.
  5. Rekindling the things you once enjoyed doing together can help you focus on things you love about each other.
  6. Take hope, be kind, and communicate effectively. Not every conversation may go as you expect but be sure to talk respectfully throughout.

Harmonizing differences in a relationship is a bit challenging, but finding a sweet spot and bouncing forward can help rediscover the best in each other.[/vc_column_text][/vc_column][/vc_row]