Dr Prerna Kohli

De-Stressing Exam Day: How to Stay Calm Before and During Your Exam

By the morning of an exam, the studying is mostly behind you. What’s left is a different skill: walking in calm enough to actually use what you know. The good news is that exam-day nerves are very manageable — with a few simple, deliberate moves.

The quick answer: On exam day, stop cramming a couple of hours before, steady your nerves with slow breathing (a longer out-breath calms the body), keep away from the panicking crowd outside the hall, and walk in reminding yourself that this is one exam — not a verdict on who you are. Last-minute panic makes you forget what you already know; calm lets you reach it.

Stop cramming — it works against you

You’ve seen it: students pacing outside the centre, notes in hand, trying to pour the whole syllabus into their heads in the final minutes. It feels productive, but it isn’t. Last-minute cramming spikes your anxiety, and high anxiety makes it harder to recall what you already know. Put the notes away a couple of hours before the exam and let your mind settle. Trust that the work is done.

Slow your breathing, steady your mind

When nerves rise, your breathing quickens and your body shifts into stress mode — exactly the state that clouds thinking. The fastest way back is through your breath. Research shows that slow breathing, especially with a longer out-breath, calms the body’s stress response and eases anxiety. Try it while you wait to go in, and again as the papers are being handed out.

A quick calming breath

Breathe in for 4, out for 6 — the long exhale is what settles you. Follow the circle.

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Your exam-day steps

1 Stop studying a couple of hours before

Give your brain a chance to rest before it has to perform. Cramming at the gate adds stress without adding knowledge.

2 Breathe whenever tension creeps in

A few slow breaths with a longer exhale, any time you feel your chest tighten — outside the hall, in your seat, before you turn the paper over.

3 Steer clear of the panic crowd

Avoid friends who wind you up or quiz you on topics right before you go in. If you haven’t covered something, hearing about it now will only rattle you — it’s too late to help and too easy to harm.

4 Do something calming while you wait

A calming playlist or something light on your phone can settle your nerves in the waiting moments. Whatever quietens the noise in your head is fair game right now.

5 Eat a breakfast you actually like

There’s no magic exam food — just don’t sit the exam hungry and distracted. A small steadying routine helps too, whatever that means for you: a familiar breakfast, a few quiet minutes, a prayer if you’re religious, a favourite song on the way.

6 Walk in with the right perspective

As you enter, remind yourself: this is just an exam, and it doesn’t decide who you are. If you’re worried you haven’t done enough, the kindest thing right now is to do your best with what you know today — reflections for next time can wait.

Key takeaways

  • Stop cramming a couple of hours before — panic erases what you know.
  • Slow breathing with a longer out-breath calms your body fast.
  • Avoid the anxious crowd and last-minute topic quizzing at the gate.
  • Settle your nerves while you wait; breathe as papers are handed out.
  • Eat something you like; keep a small steadying routine.
  • It’s one exam, not a measure of who you are.

Frequently asked questions

How do I calm my nerves on exam day?

Slow your breathing — in for about four, out for about six — since a longer exhale calms the body’s stress response. Stop studying a couple of hours before, keep away from anxious classmates, and do something settling while you wait. A calm body makes your knowledge far easier to reach.

Should I study right before the exam?

It’s best not to. Cramming in the final minutes raises your anxiety and makes recall harder, not easier. Put your notes away a couple of hours before and trust the preparation you’ve already done.

What should I eat before an exam?

Something you enjoy that keeps you from sitting the exam hungry — there’s no special “exam food.” The main thing is not to skip breakfast, so low energy doesn’t add to your nerves.

What if I panic during the exam?

Pause and take a few slow breaths with a long exhale — it only takes a moment and it lowers the alarm. Then start with a question you can answer to rebuild your confidence, and come back to the harder ones afterwards. Panic passes; let it, and keep going.

I’m scared I haven’t prepared enough — what now?

On the day, worrying about it changes nothing except your nerves. Do your honest best with what you know today; you almost certainly know more than the panic is telling you. Lessons for next time can wait until this is behind you.

When exam nerves feel like too much

If anxiety around exams is overwhelming or ongoing, talking to someone helps. Dr. Prerna Kohli works with students and families, in Gurgaon and online worldwide.

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About Dr. Prerna Kohli

Dr. Prerna Kohli is a clinical psychologist with over 30 years of practice, based in Gurugram. She holds a PhD from Aligarh Muslim University, where she was a four-time gold medallist, and received the ‘100 Women Achievers of India’ award from the President of India in 2016. A TEDx speaker and published author, she works with individuals, couples, and families through her private practice — in clinic in Gurugram and online worldwide — with a particular speciality in NRI mental health.