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Depression Treatment in Gurugram — Dr. Prerna Kohli

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Depression is a treatable clinical condition — not weakness, and not something you can simply "snap out of." Dr. Prerna Kohli is a clinical psychologist in Gurugram with 30+ years' experience who treats depression through evidence-based talk therapy, including cognitive-behavioural therapy, focusing on restoring daily functioning without over-reliance on medication. Sessions are available in-clinic in Gurugram and online worldwide, including for NRIs. Book on +91 98118 62338 (also WhatsApp) or through the website.

Depression is not weakness, and it is not something you can simply "snap out of." It is a clinical condition that affects how you think, feel, sleep, eat, and function — and it responds well to skilled psychological treatment.

Dr. Prerna Kohli has worked with individuals experiencing depression for over 30 years at her clinic in Gurugram. She provides compassionate, structured support that focuses on restoring daily functioning — without over-reliance on medication. Sessions are available in-clinic at DLF City Phase 3, Gurugram and online for clients across India and globally.

Signs you may be experiencing depression

  • Persistent sadness, emptiness, or hopelessness lasting more than two weeks
  • Loss of interest in activities you previously enjoyed
  • Significant changes in appetite or weight
  • Sleep disturbances — insomnia or sleeping too much
  • Fatigue and loss of energy even without physical exertion
  • Difficulty concentrating, making decisions, or remembering things
  • Feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt
  • Withdrawal from family, friends, and social life
  • Physical symptoms with no clear medical cause — headaches, digestive issues, body pain

Many people now arrive having already described these symptoms to an AI chatbot and been told it sounds like depression. That answer is worth taking seriously as a prompt, and it is not an assessment — the same description fits an underactive thyroid, anaemia, prolonged grief, burnout, and several other conditions that are treated quite differently. What a chatbot can and cannot tell you about your own mind is set out separately.

Dr. Kohli's approach to depression

Dr. Kohli takes a whole-person approach to depression — understanding not just the symptoms but the life circumstances, relationships, and thinking patterns that are sustaining them. Using an integrative clinical framework that draws on cognitive-behavioural therapy, interpersonal psychotherapy, and 30 years of clinical experience, she helps clients understand their depression, challenge the thought patterns that maintain it, and gradually rebuild engagement with life. Where psychiatric support is also needed, Dr. Kohli works collaboratively alongside qualified psychiatrists.

Who this is for

Dr. Kohli works with adults experiencing mild, moderate, and severe depression — including postnatal depression, depression following relationship breakdown or divorce, depression triggered by career loss or life transitions, and chronic depression that has not responded to medication alone. She has particular experience with NRI clients and the Indian diaspora navigating depression in the context of isolation, cultural dislocation, and family pressure from abroad.

What to expect: how counselling for depression works

Counselling for depression is not about being told to “think positive.” It begins with understanding your particular depression — what set it off, what is keeping it going, and how it is showing up in your sleep, energy, thoughts, and relationships. From there, the work gently rebuilds momentum: easing the harsh inner voice, restoring small daily rhythms, and addressing the patterns underneath. Dr. Kohli sets a realistic pace with you; recovery is rarely a straight line, and you are never asked to do it all at once.

Does it get better? Recovery is the rule, not the exception

Yes. Depression is one of the most treatable mental-health conditions there is — the great majority of people who get support recover or improve significantly. What keeps people suffering is rarely that help doesn't work; it's how long they wait before reaching for it, often believing they should be able to manage alone.

330+ million
people worldwide live with depression — the leading cause of disability globally
~5%
of Indian adults will experience a depressive disorder in their lifetime — higher in cities
~85%
of Indians with depression receive no treatment at all

Sources: World Health Organization; India's National Mental Health Survey (NMHS). Figures are general context, not a diagnosis.

Depression in the Indian context

Depression is often harder to name in India, where low mood is easily dismissed as weakness, laziness, or a lack of faith, and where the pressure to appear fine runs deep. In three decades of practice in Gurugram, Dr. Kohli has seen how often depression hides behind physical complaints, irritability, or overwork — and how much shame keeps people from speaking up. It surfaces in specific ways too: in the heaviness some feel during the festival season, in new mothers, in those caring for a seriously ill relative, and in NRIs carrying loneliness far from home. Naming it, without judgement, is often the first real relief.

When to seek help

If low mood, loss of interest, exhaustion, or hopelessness has lasted more than a couple of weeks and is affecting your daily life, it is worth speaking to a professional — you do not need to wait until things are unbearable. Depression responds far better to earlier help. If you have been managing this on your own with an app or a chatbot for months without anything shifting, that is usually information too — the signals worth acting on are set out here.

If things feel unbearable right now: if you are thinking about harming yourself, or worried someone else is, please treat it as urgent and reach out immediately — to your local emergency services, a doctor, or someone you trust. You do not have to hold this alone.

Explore depression & mood support by topic

Wherever you are with this, the full library is grouped below by what you’re facing — from understanding low mood, through treatment and grief, to being there for someone you love.

Treatment & feeling better

What actually helps — and small steps that make a difference.

Supporting someone who's depressed

How to help a partner, friend, or family member.

Bipolar & other mood disorders

Beyond depression — bipolar, PMDD, and seasonal low mood.

Depression in specific situations

When low mood arrives with illness, pregnancy, or the festival season.

If you're in crisis

If things feel unbearable right now — for you or someone you love.

Frequently asked questions

How do I know if what I'm feeling is depression or just sadness?

Sadness is a normal emotional response to difficult events and typically lifts with time. Depression is characterised by persistent low mood lasting more than two weeks, loss of interest in activities you previously enjoyed, and physical symptoms such as sleep and appetite changes. If these symptoms are affecting your ability to function at work, in relationships, or in daily life, it is worth speaking to a professional.

What does depression feel like?

Depression often feels less like sadness and more like emptiness, heaviness, or numbness — a loss of interest, energy, and hope that colours everything, even things you used to enjoy. Many people describe moving through life behind glass, or struggling to feel much at all. It varies from person to person, which is why a proper assessment matters. If this sounds familiar, you don't have to manage it alone.

What causes depression?

Depression usually arises from a combination of factors rather than a single cause — genetics and temperament, life stress and loss, relationship or financial strain, health conditions, and long-standing thinking patterns can all contribute. Understanding what's sustaining it in your particular case is a central part of treatment. It is not a character flaw or a sign of weakness.

An AI told me I might have depression. Should I believe it?

Take it seriously as a reason to get assessed, not as the assessment. A chatbot matches your words against patterns in text; it cannot weigh how long this has lasted, how it is affecting your functioning, your history, or physical causes such as thyroid problems, anaemia or vitamin deficiency that produce identical symptoms. It also cannot distinguish depression from grief, burnout, an anxiety disorder, or the depressed phase of bipolar disorder — distinctions that change the treatment entirely. More on this in what an AI can and cannot tell you about your own mind.

Can depression affect physical health?

Yes. Depression frequently shows up in the body — disrupted sleep, fatigue, appetite changes, headaches, digestive issues, and unexplained aches — and these physical symptoms are real, not "in your head." Treating the depression often eases them; where a medical cause is possible, Dr. Kohli will suggest it's checked alongside.

How are sleep and depression connected?

Sleep and mood are closely linked — poor or disrupted sleep can deepen depression, and depression in turn disrupts sleep, creating a cycle. Addressing both together usually works better than tackling either alone. Persistent sleep problems are worth raising in an assessment.

Can depression go away on its own?

Mild low mood sometimes lifts with time, rest, and support. But depression that persists for weeks, deepens, or disrupts daily life usually benefits from professional help rather than waiting it out — effective treatment can shorten the episode and reduce the chance of it returning. If you're unsure, an assessment is a low-pressure way to find out where you stand.

How long does depression usually last?

It varies widely — an episode can last weeks or months, and for some people it becomes longer-term without support. Treatment often shortens the course and eases the intensity along the way. Dr. Kohli will give you a realistic sense of timelines after an initial assessment.

How is depression treated?

Depression is most often treated with psychological therapy, sometimes alongside medication for moderate-to-severe presentations. Evidence-based talk therapies such as cognitive-behavioural therapy help you understand and shift the patterns sustaining the depression and rebuild engagement with life. Dr. Kohli tailors the approach to your situation, and works alongside a psychiatrist where medication is needed.

Can depression be treated without medication?

Yes — for many people, especially those with mild to moderate depression, psychological therapy alone produces significant and lasting improvement. Clinical guidelines from the UK's National Institute for Health and Care Excellence (NICE) recommend cognitive-behavioural therapy as a first-line treatment for depression, either on its own or alongside medication.

Will Dr. Kohli prescribe antidepressants?

No. As a clinical psychologist, Dr. Kohli does not prescribe medication; her approach focuses on psychological therapy. Where medication is clinically indicated, she will refer you to a qualified psychiatrist and can work collaboratively alongside them.

Can depression come back after treatment?

It can, particularly if treatment stops early or the underlying patterns aren't addressed — but the risk is much lower when therapy helps you understand your triggers and build lasting coping strategies. NICE recommends cognitive-behavioural therapy and mindfulness-based cognitive therapy specifically for relapse prevention, to reduce the chance of depression returning. Part of Dr. Kohli's work is helping you stay well, not just feel better for now.

Can living abroad or migration trigger depression?

Yes. The isolation, cultural dislocation, and family pressure of living abroad can trigger or deepen depression, often without an obvious cause. Dr. Kohli has particular experience supporting NRIs and the Indian diaspora through this — explored in Anxiety & Depression from Migration Stress.

How many sessions will I need for depression?

This varies significantly depending on the severity and duration of the depression, and your individual circumstances. Some clients experience meaningful improvement within 6–8 sessions; others benefit from longer-term support. Dr. Kohli will discuss a realistic plan after your initial consultation.

I'm based outside India — can I consult Dr. Kohli online?

Yes. Dr. Kohli regularly works with NRI clients and the Indian diaspora experiencing depression abroad. Sessions are conducted via video call at flexible timings for clients in the US, UK, Canada, Australia, the Gulf, and elsewhere.

When should someone seek professional help for depression?

It's worth seeking help when low mood lasts more than two weeks, deepens, or starts affecting your work, relationships, or daily functioning — you don't need to wait until things feel unbearable. If you ever have thoughts of harming yourself or that life isn't worth living, please treat that as a reason to reach out straight away: contact a crisis helpline in your area or your local emergency services. Reaching out early is a strength, not a failure.

You don't have to face this alone

Book a confidential consultation with Dr. Prerna Kohli — in-clinic in Gurugram or online globally.

This page is for general information and is not a substitute for individual professional assessment or treatment. If you are in crisis or having thoughts of harming yourself, please contact a crisis helpline in your area or your local emergency services.